Month: December 2023

Being “Superwoman”: Balancing Act or Silent Dream Killer?

As someone who has helped and interacted with many women, encouraging them to become entrepreneurs, I’ve noticed a common reason keeping many from pursuing their dreams of starting a business: the syndrome of being a superwoman. These women often become the family’s go-to person to relieve mental, emotional, and financial burdens, leaving them too drained to invest in their own ambitions. The inconvenient truth is that many women choose what is good over what could make them great, forgetting that not all good things are necessarily God’s things. But if you’ve made up your mind to pursue and manifest the vision for a business God has put in your heart, there are three key steps you need to take to prioritize and protect your assignment.
 
Be Settled in Your Mind 
The first key is being settled in your mind that God has called you to this venture. Obedience in carrying it out will position you to help others from a place of abundance, not drain. The Bible says that the blessing of the Lord makes one rich and adds no sorrow to it. Though obeying God in starting a business has its challenges, the peace of Christ and the comfort of the Holy Spirit come with pursuing God’s call. Remembering the purpose of our assignment helps us to use it as a source of encouragement when faced with challenges.
 
Be Free
The second key is to release yourself from the belief that you have to solve everyone’s problems. Often, it is not your responsibility, and they will find a way out if you don’t come to the rescue. You might feel selfish, be labeled as such, and possibly lose some relationships. However, once you accept that God has called you to a specific assignment, the decision and any loss of relationships become more manageable. We often don’t realize that by being someone’s go-to, we might prevent them from turning to God. God uses struggles to gain attention and provoke personal growth. By intervening, we might interfere with what God is using to bring about their greater good.
 
Create a Plan
The third key is to create a plan for your time, resources, and venture. This will establish necessary boundaries and accountability. Allocate specific days and times to work on your venture, treating this commitment as seriously as you would your current job, as it may one day replace it. Create a budget for your resources, and dedicate a bank account to your venture. Even if it’s as small as $5 from each paycheck, it’s important to consistently allocate something towards your venture. Treat this money with the same priority as your rent or mortgage payments, and use it solely for your venture. It is a seed that you are meant to sow in YOUR garden. We are constantly sowing into everyone else’s field and wonder why we have not seen a harvest. Lastly, develop a comprehensive plan for your venture. This will not only boost your confidence but also provide a stronger sense of urgency, direction, and foundation. This way, when issues arise that might tempt you to revert to your old ways, you have something substantial to reinforce your resolve to say NO.
 
In conclusion, I want to encourage you to find peace in saying NO. As the eldest sister in a family of superwomen who were always the family’s rock, I too fell into this pattern. But God helped me recognize and break free from this habit. It’s not easy and often comes with guilt (which does not come from the Lord), but the cost of constantly saying yes – my calling, assignment, and obedience to God –was too high a price to continue paying.
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Climate Change: The New Oppression?

We cannot seek to sustain the earth at the expense of human flourishing. Though the earth was created first, the earth and its resources were created to serve man, not vice versa. 

Climate change and most recently the term sustainability have become more prevalent in news cycles and everyday life within the past 5 years with the growing concern of climate change, and what some believe to be devastating and irreversible damage to the planet. But do the concerns warrant the heavy-handed response of over-regulation and increased government control that will lead to oppressed global economies and prosperous countries becoming 3-world countries?

 

Climate change refers to long-term shifts in temperatures and weather patterns, mainly caused by human activities, especially the burning of fossil fuels. “Sustainable” is the ability to maintain or continue something over the long term without causing harm to the environment, economy, or society. Environmental sustainability often implies practices that meet the needs of the present without compromising the ability of future generations to meet their own needs.

 

There has been a growing number of companies promoting their efforts and changes made to their operations and offerings to become more sustainable due to government policies, and pressure from climate activist groups. It also has become a marketing tool and a virtue signal as the masses become increasingly aware of the perceived threats of climate change in our near future.

 

To achieve environmental sustainability, businesses implement a range of strategies. These include prioritizing energy efficiency and transitioning to renewable energy sources to reduce carbon emissions, waste reduction and recycling initiatives, water conservation practices, eco-friendly packaging, carbon offsetting, and product lifecycle assessments. They also train employees and provide environmental certifications with the goal of fostering a culture of responsibility within the organization.

 

While the aforementioned actions are things that most people agree will make the world a safer and healthier place to live, these are actions that most small businesses cannot afford to implement and would be crushed under the weight of being forced to implement if they become mandatory through public policy. The mandating of sustainability initiatives would also have unintended repercussions on our food supply and everyday functions. We cannot seek to sustain the earth at the expense of human flourishing. Though the earth was created first, the earth and its resources were created to serve man, not vice versa. 

Though it is thought that human flourishing is the primary goal of world leaders and the United Nations, the policies and international agreements surrounding climate change say otherwise. The abrupt and unreasonable demand of regions to abandon fossil fuels has led to increased suffering and hunger, which are issues the UN claims to want to put an end to. The restrictions on fossil fuels have led to food shortages as farmers were limited in producing and harvesting crops. 


While solar panel usage has had widespread implementation, it is not a reliable source of energy as it relies on fossil fuels and the weather, a contradiction to climate change efforts. Many of the proposed alternatives to fossil fuels rely on fossil fuels and require a huge amount of resources, and an unreasonable amount of land usage. Either climate change policy advocates and policymakers have a utopian disconnect from reality or are highly aware of these issues and contradictions but have an agenda unrelated to saving the planet.

 

Prophetic Economic Insight

 

While there is great concern about the burden that sustainability policies might have on the American economy, (speaking as an American), I believe that this will cause a mass exodus of professional leaders, businesses, and innovators along with their resources to developing nations, causing a major shift in the global economy. As nations that have been global economic superpowers embrace climate change policies that will reshape every realm of life for its citizens, it will devastate these once robust and thriving economies and cause many to move their businesses, operations, and families to nations with fewer restrictions. They will leverage their knowledge and resources to partner with these nations which will increase economic growth and help transform nations, some of which are already on the trajectory of accelerated economic growth as they optimize their natural resources at a time when developed nations are restricting their use. Many of these nations that have been crushed under the weight of oppressive loans, sanctions, and corrupt leadership will experience restoration, a kind and a rate that the world has never seen.

 

“They will rebuild the ancient ruins and restore the places long devastated; they will renew the ruined cities that have been devastated for generations.” Isaiah 61:4

 

This economic revitalization and innovations will be led by both Christians and unbelievers who have the ability to recognize opportunities and the necessity to pivot even to a place that is unfamiliar and whose culture seems dramatically different. While some will see this exodus and partnerships as kin to colonization, this will not be the case as these nations will retain their cultural norms, while embracing enhancements and being the primary beneficiaries of these partnerships.

 

My prayer and hope is that the nation I currently call home, and has been a leader and symbol of freedom and godly standards, will reverse and turn from the course of devastation it is currently on. While every human being should be a good manager of the planet we all share, we must not allow hysteria and ulterior motives of big corporations seeking to stifle competition and greedy politicians looking to increase their power, to cause us to agree with policies and actions that would have a greater negative impact on human life than a positive impact on sustaining the earth.

YES, BE JACK OF ALL TRADES.

Previous generations often disapproved of individuals engaging in multiple trades simultaneously. The typical response would be the proverbial “jack of all trades, master of none.”

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Textured Hair Styling for Cosmetology Students Now Mandatory in New York: A Win for Black Women or Threat to Black Stylist? 

A new law mandating that cosmetology students in New York learn how to style textured hair has been passed. While many supporters of the bill celebrate this new regulation as a diversity win for Black women in New York State, others view it as a potential threat to Black hairstylists. They fear increased competition as non-Black stylists are now required to learn how to style Black hair. The bill, introduced in April of this year by New York State Senator Jamaal T. Bailey, was signed into law on November 17.

 

Those who view this law as a victory see it as an end to the ‘discrimination’ based on hair texture that some Black women have faced when seeking service in salons with stylists who don’t know how to style textured hair.

 

Jonaise Pickett, a stylist based in New York, shares her experience of working in a salon among white stylists who pass their clients to her because they are incapable of styling textured hair, despite being overwhelmed with her own clientele. Pickett took to her Instagram to respond to the backlash about the bill and shared her thoughts: ‘Hairstylists should know how to style all types of hair.’ She added, ‘Whoever is best fit for the job, should get the job,’ encouraging those who feel this law will cut into the market share of Black hairstylists to focus on excellence rather than competition.

 

The issue of non-Black stylists being unable to style textured hair has long been a problem in the fashion industry. Models have complained for years about the lack of ability or consideration for their hair type on sets of photoshoots and backstage at fashion shows. This may now become a thing of the past with the passing of this bill.

 

On the other hand, diversity and inclusion actions, designed to tackle discrimination and segregation, have historically had negative impacts on Black-owned businesses and institutions. In the years following integration, many Black businesses lost sales and had to close due to their customers opting to spend money in white-owned establishments and businesses outside their community.

 

In reality, both women and men are more likely to have their hair styled by someone of their own race or culture, and as Jonaise Pickett passionately shared in her post, ‘Whoever is best fit for the job, should get the job.’

 

Proverbs 22:29 says, ‘Do you see someone skilled in their work? They will serve before kings.’ Some of the best and highest-paid stylists in fashion and entertainment are Black men and women, many of whom come from humble beginnings. Despite this nation’s history of discrimination and racism, there is no opportunity that excellence, determination, and the grace of God cannot grant you access to.

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